By Susan Howard
Like in an annoying friendship, hanging out with someone because of guilt or feeling like you are “supposed to” leads to a destructive unhappy life. My new responds when someone tries to lay a trip on me about not calling is, “I don’t do that guilt thing.” I verbally reject the bogus accusations because, guess what, I am an adult and I get to do what I want, when I want. As I protest, it is obvious I have previously fallen victim and bought into their heavy negative feelings. In the past I have felt remorse and crappy about myself. That is why now I have to reject the lame attitudes out loud to prove it to myself. “I’ll call you when I am damn ready.”
Which brings me to this; food.
You have no obligation to eat what you ordered at a restaurant.
You have no obligation to eat what someone else ordered at a restaurant.
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